Written by: Edet Crownofglory Patience
Some guys sha!
They will just treat some ladies worthlessly and send them packing afterwards.
No! Don’t look at me like that. I know what I’m talking about.
Well, I don’t really blame some of the guys.
Look at the title of this article once again, I’m not in anyway referring to your account balance.
I’m talking about your self worth.
“Having a sense of self-worth means that you value yourself, and having a sense of self-value means that you are worthy.” Self-worth is defined by Merriam-Webster as: “a feeling that you are a good person who deserves to be treated with respect”.
Wait a minute! How can a lady woo her friend’s boyfriend?
Why should a lady tell a guy that she is contented with just being impregnated by him?
Oh my God! For what reason?
Lady, only if you know your worth, then you’d stop shaming yourself before a guy all in the name of “love”.
My dear, that is lust and not love.
The lust that the devil is ready to use to transport you to a deadly end.
Even if you have a hot sexual feeling for a guy, kill that feeling and keep your worth, else you’ll be disgraced.
If you’d discovered yourself/purpose, then, you’d have stopped idolising these guys and glorify your Maker.
With the help of your Maker, you’ll build your self esteem to the point that even guys will call you virtuous.
These guys will see a virtue of inexplicable worth in you.
Any guy will toil, labour and refine himself before he’d have the confidence to talk to you.
Lady, come off it!
Stop chasing guys and chase your future!
Chase your career!
Chase your ministry!
Make a meaning out of your life, please.
By the way, I’m not in any way supporting proud ladies, neither am I supporting feminism. All I’m saying is that you should do the following ⬇️:
➡️ discover yourself/purpose
➡️ identify your potentials
➡️ refine the crude oil in you
➡️ build your image and brand.
➡️ glorify God with all you have.
➡️ humble yourself and keep yourself.
➡️ work/walk toward fulfilling your God – given purpose e.t.c
I love to see YOU being responsible and productive!
Come in let’s talk.
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