Written by: Edet Crownofglory Patience
Some guys sha!
They will just treat some ladies worthlessly and send them packing afterwards.
No! Don’t look at me like that. I know what I’m talking about.
Well, I don’t really blame some of the guys.
Look at the title of this article once again, I’m not in anyway referring to your account balance.
I’m talking about your self worth.
“Having a sense of self-worth means that you value yourself, and having a sense of self-value means that you are worthy.” Self-worth is defined by Merriam-Webster as: “a feeling that you are a good person who deserves to be treated with respect”.
Wait a minute! How can a lady woo her friend’s boyfriend?
Why should a lady tell a guy that she is contented with just being impregnated by him?
Oh my God! For what reason?
Lady, only if you know your worth, then you’d stop shaming yourself before a guy all in the name of “love”.
My dear, that is lust and not love.
The lust that the devil is ready to use to transport you to a deadly end.
Even if you have a hot sexual feeling for a guy, kill that feeling and keep your worth, else you’ll be disgraced.
If you’d discovered yourself/purpose, then, you’d have stopped idolising these guys and glorify your Maker.
With the help of your Maker, you’ll build your self esteem to the point that even guys will call you virtuous.
These guys will see a virtue of inexplicable worth in you.
Any guy will toil, labour and refine himself before he’d have the confidence to talk to you.
Lady, come off it!
Stop chasing guys and chase your future!
Chase your career!
Chase your ministry!
Make a meaning out of your life, please.
By the way, I’m not in any way supporting proud ladies, neither am I supporting feminism. All I’m saying is that you should do the following ⬇️:
➡️ discover yourself/purpose
➡️ identify your potentials
➡️ refine the crude oil in you
➡️ build your image and brand.
➡️ glorify God with all you have.
➡️ humble yourself and keep yourself.
➡️ work/walk toward fulfilling your God – given purpose e.t.c
I love to see YOU being responsible and productive!
Come in let’s talk.
© Crownofglory – Global Influencer
Content Creator||•Editor||•Copywriter||•Ghostwriter||•Blogger||•Self/Purpose Discovery Coach.
My name is Edet Glory Patience, A.K.A (Crownofglory). To the glory of God, I’m a graduate of English Language and Literature – In – English from the Prestigious Premiere University of Education in Nigeria – Tai Solarin University of Education.
I love to see people especially youths move in line with the injunction and commandment of God. Hence, I became an inspirational and a motivational writer, in a bid to reach out to the ‘purposeless’ youths through my writings.
My passion for the things of God moved me to create a WhatsApp group and a blog. To the glory of God, testimonies are abound of how God has been touching lives through my articles.
Therefore, I have never stopped to learn, unlearn and relearn.
To the glory of God, to further explore and climb the ladder of success, I have added some feathers to my cap of success; I am now a Certified Creative Writer, Content Creator/Developer, Copywriter, and a Christian Story Writer. I also have a certificate in 3D Animation. Please, watch out for more certifications and qualifications.
To this end, I will never stop learning, as I aspire to open the eyes of youths who are still blind to the love of God for them.
Furthermore, I have been actively effective in more than 10 WhatsApp groups; where God has been using me immensely to the glory of His name. Some of which are: I belong to The Inspiration Clinic (TIC), ‘A Place Where People Are Inspired To Forge Ahead In Life’, founded by Mr. Olufemi Emmanuel A.K.A. The Inspiration Doctor.
I am also one of the Engine Room Ambassadors for Masters’ Mind Initiative (MMI), a place where ‘Catalysts are Built for Global Positive Change’ founded by Mr. Hollis E. Idabor, A.K.A. Uncle Grab Sense.
I am also a member of the Babes of Unique Dynamites (B.U.D); A Christian Group Where Sisters Are Being Trained To Be Effective Tools In The Hands Of God And To Be Good Home Builders, founded by Mrs. Elizabeth Oyebola Yakubu, A.K.A De – Raconteur.
To mention but a few…
I am also a certified entrepreneur (though, I’m still on the ladder), my business ID is Crown4King Ventures. I am into mini importation; where I buy directly from from Chinese suppliers. I sell Android Phones, Both Men and Ladies’ shoes, Kitchen Utensils, Wristwatches, Ladies’ handbags, Male and Female Wears e.t.c. You can send a DM to place your orders and you’ll get them delivered to your doorsteps in a matter of weeks. Mind you, A Trial Will Keep You Thirsty For More.
Please, watch out for me, as God hasn’t started with me yet.
However, If you feel depressed or dejected, quickly log in to www.crowninspires.com, where you’ll get to read soul lifting inspirational, motivational, educative e.t.c articles.
See you there!!!
I love you.